distraction
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Habit Review
Dear Conscience, I’m in the process of reinforcing my 3 basic habits. Yesterday I reviewed my Habit#1, which is writing to you daily. This habit is largely ingrained, and doesn’t need much building anymore. But it did need some refining: namely, I had to limit some negative externalities. Specifically, the urge to check the stats Continue reading
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Get Back on That Horse!
Dear Conscience, it’s so easy to fall into the old habits. The new ones started getting planted, but aren’t rooted enough yet. And they easily get blown away at first opportunity. I fell off the horse due to external circumstances, but it’s up to me to get back on. And I haven’t for the past Continue reading
About Me
I got my first nickname when I was 4 years old. It was “bakitza”, which means ‘an old lady’. I’ve always been an old lady on the inside. And as I progress towards being an old lady on the outside too, I want to take control of this journey. To reach the full fledged bakitza level with a peace of mind I always associated with that life stage. I thought it would come on it’s own with age. But now I realize that I have to take control over the mess that my life currently is in order to be a thoroughly satisfied bakitza one day.
Becoming Bakitza 