Becoming Bakitza

An aspiring bakitza attempting to slowly take control of her journey


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  • Cozy up on a Rainy Saturday

    Starting early today, realizing I’ll have to incorporate this more officially into my routine, like one would journaling anyway. Seems that really for something to become an automatic habit, it can’t just be “I’ll do it at some point today”. Anyway, while forming habits is a big pain point, today is connection day. And yet Continue reading

About Me

I got my first nickname when I was 4 years old. It was “bakitza”, which means ‘an old lady’. I’ve always been an old lady on the inside. And as I progress towards being an old lady on the outside too, I want to take control of this journey. To reach the full fledged bakitza level with a peace of mind I always associated with that life stage. I thought it would come on it’s own with age. But now I realize that I have to take control over the mess that my life currently is in order to be a thoroughly satisfied bakitza one day.

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