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Evening Showers
Dear Conscience, I am getting better at not succumbing to the lure of my phone through most of the day. The evening, that little time gap between my daughter going to sleep and me going to sleep, is when my willpower wears off, and I waste that precious time online. Instead, I should wind down Continue reading
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Nothing Like the Hump Day to Turn the Week Around
Do I really truly believe it, or am I just temporarily relieving my anxiety about the slow approaching self imposed doom due to inertia? I did shower and wash my hair. Can I call the bare minimum an accomplishment? I guess so, is it’s more than what I manage on most days. A sad accomplishment, Continue reading
About Me
I got my first nickname when I was 4 years old. It was “bakitza”, which means ‘an old lady’. I’ve always been an old lady on the inside. And as I progress towards being an old lady on the outside too, I want to take control of this journey. To reach the full fledged bakitza level with a peace of mind I always associated with that life stage. I thought it would come on it’s own with age. But now I realize that I have to take control over the mess that my life currently is in order to be a thoroughly satisfied bakitza one day.
Becoming Bakitza 